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		captaincaveman on April 13, 2022 \| parent \| context \| favorite \| on: A dirty dish by the sink can be a big marriage pro... 'Change yourself', 'just be yourself', no one can decide what the duck to do! Do you keep changing yourself to meet their every whim, maybe they should just let it go, it's just a glass?

ay on April 13, 2022 [–]

Why would you be with a person you aren’t willing to change yourself for ?

captaincaveman on April 13, 2022 | [–]

I'm not saying there shouldn't be flexibility, it's give and take, but there clearly should be some limits. So blanket advice of change what your doing to satisfy all minor complaints isn't great advice in my opinion.

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